After 11 years together, we are now legally married! We got married in New Paltz in 2004, but New York did not recognize same-sex marriages until 2011, and finally, it was our turn! The ceremony was short but very special, and "Gogo" was in town. Our wonderful babysitter, Lucy, also came to help with the kids. We celebrated afterward with a drink at Mickey Spillane's (on the house!).